You are welcome here.
I appreciate you being here.
And I’d love to meet you — whether that happens online or in my work space.
But first things first — let me give you a little more insight into this project, my story, and how they came together — not perfectly, but truthfully.
In the end, it’s the journey that matters more than the destination.
So… here it goes:
What is Clueless Coaching?
Clueless is a space for getting honest with yourself — gently.
It’s for anyone who looks fine on the outside, but feels a little lost on the inside — disconnected from your own clarity, your own voice, your own sense of what matters.
I created Clueless as a coach and a writer — and honestly, as someone who’s been in that exact place.
This isn’t about fixing.
It’s about slowing down, paying attention, and remembering what’s true for you.
Together, we look at what’s actually going on — not with judgment, but with curiosity.
We loosen the pressure to figure everything out, and instead start creating small, steady shifts.
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Clueless is built on two core ideas:
awareness (meeting yourself honestly) and responsibility (knowing you have a say in how your life feels).
There’s no pressure to be perfect.
Just an invitation to come back to yourself — one quiet step at a time.
And if you’re ready, I’d love to walk with you for a while.
How It All Started
I was 28 when I broke up with what I thought was going to be 'the love of my life'. Little did I know that the sense of freedom I had desired so much would soon lead me into one of the biggest crises I’d experienced so far.
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In my newly gained freedom, I was allowed to make choices by myself, to think for myself, to do things as I like. It was finally going to be me, free in the world, blissfully creating the reality I wanted for myself.
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There was only one problem: “The reality I wanted” – I had absolutely no idea what that was.
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It wasn’t only that I was in doubt about a particular thing in my life. It wasn’t even that I was doubting everything.
I wish that was the case, but it wasn’t. Because in my mind, there was no doubt. There was no clue either. Then this word came to my mind – clueless. Yes, that’s exactly right, I thought.
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Terrible – when you realize that maybe you’ve never actually wanted to choose for yourself. Or think for yourself.
That you’ve never truly wanted anything for yourself.
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That realization broke my heart. I felt like I had committed the biggest crime towards myself. I had let myself flow through life like a small paper boat awkwardly shaking from the waves around it, totally helpless against the tides that try to pull it into one direction or another.
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If there was a scale that could measure the responsibility a human being takes for themselves, I would be sitting right at the bottom, pathetically holding my Psychology degree and self-development books, cringing at the idea of how wise and experienced I had thought I was.
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I always thought I knew better. Did better. How did I end up like this?
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You know what? It doesn’t matter. It actually doesn’t at all matter why I landed where I was. It wasn’t about the why.
From that moment on, it was going to be about how – how to move forward.
This conclusion slowly began to trigger some sense of hope inside of me.
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The good thing is that, once you hit the bottom, there’s no other way than up. That’s unless you choose to stay and chill at loser camp, of course. But that wasn’t me. I was done chilling. I was about to change it all. The only question was, “how the hell am I going to do that?”
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And that’s how the Clueless project started.
About Me
For a long time, I thought I was doing okay.
I had the degree, the bookshelf full of self-development books, and the ability to say all the “right” things.
But I wasn’t really living on purpose.
I was letting old stories and quiet expectations run the show — following scripts I didn’t write, performing choices I didn’t fully choose.
And one day, I just... woke up.
Not with a big revelation — but with a blank page.
I looked around at my life and realized I had no clue what was actually going on. No clue what I wanted, how I got here, or what “here” even meant.
It was like I had been near myself for years, but never quite with myself.
That moment — quiet, painful, and unbelievably honest — became the beginning of something real.
Clueless was born from that space.
Not from a desire to teach or lead, but from a desire to stay with myself long enough to finally listen.
To return to presence. To rebuild trust. To find out what life could feel like without noise, without performing, and without pressure.
Now, as a coach and writer, that’s what I help others do too.
Not by offering perfect answers — but by creating soft, honest space for people to figure out what’s true for them.
Whether through words, sessions, or shared moments, my work is about learning how to come home to yourself.
I’m still figuring it out too. That’s kind of the point.
But I’m here. I’m in it. And if you are too, you’re not alone.
Values & Vision
I believe in honesty over performance.
Presence over perfection.
And self-responsibility that’s rooted in self-compassion — not pressure.
I don’t believe in fixing people. I believe in creating space for people to meet themselves — gently, truthfully, without shame. Because when we do that, something opens. Something shifts. We stop living on autopilot and start living with intention, even in the smallest ways.
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Clueless is, at its core, about refusing to abandon yourself.
It’s about staying — especially when it’s uncomfortable. Staying with the feelings. Staying with the questions. Staying with you — even when distraction, noise, and inertia try to pull you away from yourself.
It’s also about questioning the beliefs you’ve been carrying — the ones that were handed to you, not chosen.
What’s “normal.” What’s “right.” What a good life should look like. If it feels unfair, uneasy, or limiting… maybe it was never meant to be yours. And maybe, you don’t have to keep living by it.
This work is about returning. Back to presence. Back to what’s true for you. Back to the parts of you that got buried under all the noise and expectations.
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My vision isn’t to build a brand, or to be an expert on anyone’s life. My vision is to keep telling the truth.
To stay in the process. To keep showing up.
And to offer something that reminds you: even when you feel lost, you’re not failing — you’re just waking up.
This isn’t about certainty.
It’s about learning how to stay — with yourself, with the moment, with what matters — even when you don’t have it all figured out.
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That’s what I’m here for. That’s what Clueless is here for.